The energy behind positive thinking

We are here to tell you about the power of positive thinking from an energetic stand point. The energy of your thoughts is what matters. We are in control of our minds really if we stop having the old habits and thoughts. Much of this has to do with mind control.

Pick one thought that is positive and say that thought over and over again. Especially when you go to the other thoughts of fear and worry. Eventually the energy of the positive thought will prevail.

Do not be set on one result. Often times our old programs limit what is possible so if we are open and set the door to opening by our one, positive thought then that frees the paths of limitation and fear and allows the universe’s potential to prevail.

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When we focus on the NOW there is not anxiety

There is a lot out there to be excited and thrilled about. On the one hand the environment is telling us that enough is enough and changing. On the other hand people are taking on their lives and themselves and handling themselves with ultra care, healing the wounds of our ancestors. And that’s what this is about…we are healing from the past.

We are not beholden to the past. We are here in the NOW. When we focus on the NOW there is not anxiety. The worry comes from the past and the past did not work out the way we had all foreseen. The present is the moment that we can change. The future is worrisome because it could be many things depending on the NOW.

The message is…worry about your thoughts and keeping them on the NOW. Methods to do so are:

  • grounding
  • gardening
  • taking care of yourself and others (with healthy boundaries)

There is no fear if there is love.

Change is Natural – be ok with change

We all have to re-invent right now. This is causing a lot of unrest in a lot of people’s worlds. The facts are not changeable.

The way that you interact with the unchangeable is what matters most.

We still are an element of nature. Nature is constantly adapting to change. If things do not change with change then they change.

Be your nature – be ok with change.

Worry about what you are thinking

We so often worry about what other people think. Really what we should be concerned about what we are thinking about. It is very important to assert, positively, what you want in your life. Give gratitude. And only focus on what we do want. These three things are the only thing that we need to create the life of our dreams.

What gets so complicated and hard for us to understand is that it has already occurred and if we stay in the presence of what I want has already occurred we see that it has already occurred. We go into fear, because of the time thing and then we are right back to “it has not occurred. Yet.”

It doesn’t matter when it occurs. It only matters that it occurred. We get so caught up in the time thing.

How to have difficult conversations

Let’s face it…we are all in relationships that need some tweaking. To add to the complication many of us have relationship issues with people who (a. cannot ever be wrong; b. cannot apologize; c. will try to make you feel wrong by trying to discuss issues).

This is a major complication in any relationship. It is not an obstacle though. What you can do to overcome this obstacle is to ask the person who (a. cannot ever be wrong; b. cannot apologize; c. will try to make you feel wrong by trying to discuss issues) if they want to work on the relationship issues. If they say “yes” try to present what you are experiencing. Say something along these lines…”If you want to work on our issues I am confused by why your defenses are (a. cannot ever be wrong; b. cannot apologize; c. will try to make you feel wrong by trying to discuss issues). It seems like you are conflicted. Maybe you need some time to deliberate. If you are wanting to work on our issues I will give you some time to figure out why your defense mechanisms are not in synch with your intent to work on our issues.

These people, often, do want to work on their issues. They are not aware of how their personality types, quirks, issues prevent that from happening. They keep tripping on their own feet (if you will).

Do unto others…

When people do not get how to treat other people they are just not getting it. This is not a negative statement to put them down. It is a fact. It is pretty evident how to treat others. You treat them how you want to be treated. Who cannot ask themselves the question, “How do I want to be treated?”

No one.

If someone does not know how to treat other people they are choosing not to ask themselves how they would want to be treated or perhaps they ask and don’t follow through.

We all know how to treat each other. The problem is in the amount of people that choose to treat others the way that they want to be treated.

This is not to put people down. It is merely to understand the element of personal choice in the matter.

The “Golden Rule”

When you get upset at how people are treating you remember that this soul is lost and forgot to remember that treating people as you would like to be treated is a “Golden Rule.” By “Golden Rule” we mean that once it is broken it is hard to remember that it was broken and many of the people have so forgotten this rule that they are lost and probably will not find their way back to this “Golden Life.”

When I talk about a “Golden Life” only a few people know what I am talking about because so few have truly followed the “Golden Rule.” It is a “Golden Rule” for a reason you know.