The energy behind positive thinking

We are here to tell you about the power of positive thinking from an energetic stand point. The energy of your thoughts is what matters. We are in control of our minds really if we stop having the old habits and thoughts. Much of this has to do with mind control.

Pick one thought that is positive and say that thought over and over again. Especially when you go to the other thoughts of fear and worry. Eventually the energy of the positive thought will prevail.

Do not be set on one result. Often times our old programs limit what is possible so if we are open and set the door to opening by our one, positive thought then that frees the paths of limitation and fear and allows the universe’s potential to prevail.


When we focus on the NOW there is not anxiety

There is a lot out there to be excited and thrilled about. On the one hand the environment is telling us that enough is enough and changing. On the other hand people are taking on their lives and themselves and handling themselves with ultra care, healing the wounds of our ancestors. And that’s what this is about…we are healing from the past.

We are not beholden to the past. We are here in the NOW. When we focus on the NOW there is not anxiety. The worry comes from the past and the past did not work out the way we had all foreseen. The present is the moment that we can change. The future is worrisome because it could be many things depending on the NOW.

The message is…worry about your thoughts and keeping them on the NOW. Methods to do so are:

  • grounding
  • gardening
  • taking care of yourself and others (with healthy boundaries)

There is no fear if there is love.

Thoughts Become Things

The days of not being responsible 100 percent for your thoughts and actions are completely over. We are evolving to a consciousness where people who do not understand this will be extremely and utterly challenged by day-to-day life. If there is no integrity in your thinking you will start creating the very fears that you harbor en masse. We are evolving to a higher frequency where thoughts become things is more of a reality than a myth.

It is time to start trying to control the mind more as it is the very creator of your life.

How to have difficult conversations

Let’s face it…we are all in relationships that need some tweaking. To add to the complication many of us have relationship issues with people who (a. cannot ever be wrong; b. cannot apologize; c. will try to make you feel wrong by trying to discuss issues).

This is a major complication in any relationship. It is not an obstacle though. What you can do to overcome this obstacle is to ask the person who (a. cannot ever be wrong; b. cannot apologize; c. will try to make you feel wrong by trying to discuss issues) if they want to work on the relationship issues. If they say “yes” try to present what you are experiencing. Say something along these lines…”If you want to work on our issues I am confused by why your defenses are (a. cannot ever be wrong; b. cannot apologize; c. will try to make you feel wrong by trying to discuss issues). It seems like you are conflicted. Maybe you need some time to deliberate. If you are wanting to work on our issues I will give you some time to figure out why your defense mechanisms are not in synch with your intent to work on our issues.

These people, often, do want to work on their issues. They are not aware of how their personality types, quirks, issues prevent that from happening. They keep tripping on their own feet (if you will).

Do unto others…

When people do not get how to treat other people they are just not getting it. This is not a negative statement to put them down. It is a fact. It is pretty evident how to treat others. You treat them how you want to be treated. Who cannot ask themselves the question, “How do I want to be treated?”

No one.

If someone does not know how to treat other people they are choosing not to ask themselves how they would want to be treated or perhaps they ask and don’t follow through.

We all know how to treat each other. The problem is in the amount of people that choose to treat others the way that they want to be treated.

This is not to put people down. It is merely to understand the element of personal choice in the matter.

Don’t worry about what other people think – be happy

Be Happy

Be happy. Make people jealous of your happiness.

When you worry about what other people think you are a prisoner to many people’s general state of unhappiness.

It is no secret that people are fearful and scared of the unknown. They are also hanging on to this notion that life should be easier. The thing that they don’t realize is that things are going to be hard and are going to be getting harder.

This expectation of things should be easier and the notion that life is actually getting harder make conflict in the form of unhappiness. Why subject yourself to something that has nothing to do with you?

Be happy. Make people jealous of your happiness. That is the only way to get around it.

Taking a moment to reflect…a little life advice

In the context of all of our lives the most important moments are when we learn. That is all that I will say. End of point.

If you are trying to bring more meaning to your life then listen to your life, to what is not working and what needs to change. When you listen maybe a new path will be revealed, a new way of living which will help you to change your course.

If you keep on the same course it is not as easy to change. So change, so move, so grow. This is so much more fulfilling in the end than to stay on the same course.

When you change don’t be afraid, new ways of thinking and growth will help gather you from the fall should you have a weak moment and not know how to move forward.