Look for the good in your life. It abounds. We know that there are challenges. These challenges exist because of other people’s struggles with themselves and their ideas of how things should be and how things have actually been for awhile.

When your sense of truth and honesty and reality conflicts with other people’s ideas of how things have been then you think that you are what is being rejected.

Reality is really real. Some people prefer different versions of their own reality. Doesn’t mean that you need to take the concoction they are taking to make your life manageable.

When you worry about how other people treat you focus on how you treat you. Is allowing someone to treat you a certain way really treating yourself the way that you want to be treated?

Sometimes ignoring the problems perpetuates the problem(s) and the best, and most direct way, of changing this is to view your job as allowing or not allowing the people in your life to treat you that way.

If they don’t respond respectfully to your request for better treatment then they are making the choice not you. It’s not always on their terms. Those are no terms at all. To live by.