Perception vs reality

Look for the good in your life. It abounds. We know that there are challenges. These challenges exist because of other people’s struggles with themselves and their ideas of how things should be and how things have actually been for awhile.

When your sense of truth and honesty and reality conflicts with other people’s ideas of how things have been then you think that you are what is being rejected.

Reality is really real. Some people prefer different versions of their own reality. Doesn’t mean that you need to take the concoction they are taking to make your life manageable.

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You do have choices when it comes to how people treat you

When you worry about how other people treat you focus on how you treat you. Is allowing someone to treat you a certain way really treating yourself the way that you want to be treated?

Sometimes ignoring the problems perpetuates the problem(s) and the best, and most direct way, of changing this is to view your job as allowing or not allowing the people in your life to treat you that way.

If they don’t respond respectfully to your request for better treatment then they are making the choice not you. It’s not always on their terms. Those are no terms at all. To live by.

What have you said today to someone that will encourage them to be bigger and better?

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What have you said today to someone that will encourage them to be bigger and better?

Time and time again, it is the small person who walks around making other people feel small so that they will not feel small in comparison.

This is the cycle of the world. If you think you are small then you belittle others so that in your mind you do not seem so small.

Instead of bringing others down we should all be lifting people up. It is the big people that allow and encourage others to be big because they understand that when we all feel good about ourselves this becomes a much better place to live.

What have you said today to someone that will encourage them to be bigger and better?