When we don’t love ourselves enough our lives do not work out as well as they could. Our road blocks often exist just because we do not love ourselves or love ourselves enough. Most interpersonal relationships suffer just because both parties are not spending enough energy on loving themselves. And, instead, they are spending time trying to earn the love that, they, themselves need to provide for themselves.
Self love is hard. It is a constant effort. It will challenge you. However, if you want a loving, fulfilling relationship in your life you need to only start with loving yourself.