Be aware that new life patterns are appearing as old life patterns are disappearing. As you grow you will leave what no longer suites you (or it will appear that these things will leave you). What is happening, simultaneously, is that a new skin appears as an old skin disappears.
When you are courageous enough to grow you will experience loss. However, you must count your blessings as they appear, for they are your new life and this new skin suites you well. In fact, it suites you better than your old skin.
With growth comes loss. But you must focus on the growth NOT the loss.