When things don’t go the way that you expected them to go please take the time to ask what the lesson is that you are about to learn. Do you need to clear the blockages getting in the way of your success? Often times people do. They get in the way of their own success and working at this level provides more answers than continuing on the same path, trying the same tactics, to move forward.
When evaluating your blockages go to a deeper level by thinking of the incident that did not go as expected and feel how your body feels. If there is a part of your body that brings your attention pay attention to how that part of your body feels, while breathing deeply. If you stay present, observing that part of your body as well as focusing on deep breathing, information in the form of visions or words or thoughts will lead you to the source(s) of the blockage. If you just focus, without judgement, there will be hints of what the blockage is all about.