We are here to tell you that struggle is ok. It is where the divine often enters our lives because we are challenged to the point that we let go and let some higher force and/or knowledge come through and work miracles in our lives. Do not fight the struggle so much as submit your problems and worries to the divine.
Let God or Source or Allah (whatever your higher power is) have your problem and allow it/him/her to bring you a solution. That is all that we can do. And when we let go we allow the possibility of magic to come through and work miracles in our lives.